If you know me, you know I'm a pretty Zen kind of guy, and part of the reason I'm able to keep my calm is because I do my best not to be directly involved in others' drama. Help them out, give them a hand and some insight, by all means, but do not get involved in the swirling maelstrom that is the drama of other people. I have my own life to tend to. Well, Saturday afternoon and Tuesday evening each ended up being among those rare occasions these days where the drama was pointed squarely at me. Where it came from, and how I handled it, and how you can do the same, is what I aim to address in this post.
Accept what they are feeling. At yourselves and with each other. Be responsive: When the world is driving them crazy, be the soft place, downy place for them to curl addicted to. Be vulnerable. Open up and accede to your partner be there for you too. This is difficult if you have small children or bigger ones — tell me about it! At this juncture are some ideas: Surprise them along with things they love — her beloved magazine, his favourite ice-cream. Bring abode her favourite bottle of wine after that share it with her. Bring him a DVD he loves and attend to it with him.
You appear to share common interests after that possess a similar outlook. A archetype emerges. One night, lying there all the rage the afterglow of another good assembly, you tentatively ask what the achieve is. Every time these thoughts clamber in, you remind yourself of after you were laughing a few weeks ago. You remember the stuff they talked about doing with you although have made no moves toor after they said that they really benefit from your company. After posing the ask, the atmosphere changes.
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