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The Pros and Cons of Joining a Threesome

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A threesome can be incredibly empowering. I matched with a couple on Tinder and they were so kind and communicative. We met for drinks first and went back to their place. They were obviously a great couple, so communication was key for them to make sure they knew their boundaries and what was okay or not. I was single at the time. It felt very freeing and opened my mind—now I understand why some folks make it a regular part of their relationship. We think you should come over. They were both totally focused on me, which was fantastic. That was the good part.

Two of my friends and I had talked about it: We were commonly interested in each other, and we were mutually interested in having a threesome. Great, step one accomplished, I thought to myself. We know we want to make it happen, although how, exactly, do we have a threesome? Concerns began to swarm my head. Would we meet at individual of our houses? None of us lived alone, so how were we going to make that work?

Threesomes hold something of a mythical appeal in our collective sexual imagination. Adding an extra body to a sexual encounter is hot as hell designed for any number of reasons, not slight of which is just the absolute visual and physical sensory overload so as to comes with it. Popular as the fantasy might be, research suggests the IRL experience is more of a mixed bag. In practice, threesomes are actually not that common.

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